How to Change Your Life as a Boss

Even for the most talented people, becoming a leader is a challenging but worthwhile road of ongoing learning and self-development.

Being a boss for the first time and even throughout your time as one can be extremely difficult in various ways, although we frequently ignore it.

That sentiment is unfortunate because the struggles encountered throughout this rite of passage can have far-reaching effects on both the person and the organization.

Tips to Change Your Life as a Boss

Modify Your Outlook

New managers frequently receive promotions because of their outstanding individual contributions.

When transitioning into management, it’s crucial to put more effort into enhancing the skills of others. Recognize others’ contributions frequently and in public. No longer is everything about you.

Accept Suggestions From Others

If given a chance, your team will certainly come up with much better ideas than you. New managers must collaborate closely with staff members and foster their ideas.

Employee engagement will increase, and the business will benefit when workers believe their contributions matter.

Adequately “Manage Up”

Be careful when trying to sell your and your team’s accomplishments to higher-ups because one of the pressures of being a new manager is the feeling that you need to demonstrate that the organization is enjoying a strong return on investment. Successes should be celebrated rather than flaunted.

Establish Goals

It would be best if you were discussing how your team is progressing toward their objectives when you frequently meet with them (you do that, right?).

Set a new stretch goal when staff members achieve their goals. Don’t put your team under excessive pressure, but if you aren’t exerting at least some pressure, your team may begin to plateau.

Learn to Relax

Now you know the restrictions and the expectations that come with being the boss. The way to change your life is to know that these restrictions are not all that exists. You can’t let the pressure get to you.

Remember to take time out for yourself, whether doing your favorite hobby or taking part in executive wellness sessions to better your mental state. In sessions like these, you can have individual meditation or even group sessions where you may interact with others in your place to understand your feelings.

What to Avoid?

Avoid Implementing New Policies Frequently

You need not establish a new regulation or policy every time someone makes a mistake. Shotgun remedial action is what this is.

It’s like when a boss tells the entire group that “some of you” did whatever wrongdoing. The response is too excessive.  Instead, give confidential, one-on-one counseling to the person who had the issue.

It would help if you only implemented a policy or new “regulation” to address serious, pervasive, and systemic issues. Not trivial matters can be resolved by simple management.

Additionally, this blanket approach to rectifying someone’s behavior is incredibly demotivating for others who didn’t make a mistake.

Don’t Represent Lies

Although it may seem obvious, many managers do lie. Even one falsehood is all it takes to ruin your credibility with your staff.

You may choose not to disclose knowledge to those who do not need it, but you must never lie. Inform your staff as much as you can about anything that affects them or the business.

Transparency is a goal of a good manager. Acting as though you are an authority on a subject when you are not is another form of lying.

You don’t need to know more about every technical aspect of anything your staff does. If they are the “expert” on it, respect their knowledge. Regard it.

What’s Next?

A growth mindset is essential to learning and developing in practically every situation. And managers should pay particular attention to it.

As we previously said, new managers need a growth mentality because they have much to learn. Great leaders are aware that a critical quality to look for in potential managers is a growth mindset because they understand that the only way a new manager will succeed is if they are prepared, eager, and able to pick up new abilities quickly.

Considering this, if you demonstrate this approach by being open to learning and developing, you’ll help yourself stand out while also getting better.


Management is not about glory, despite what you may have heard. Many people make that error when they are promoted to manager.

Recognize that managing is like coaching a sports team. You’re not even the coach in some instances, you’re more like the backup assistant coach in the second tier.

You have one goal: to get the most out of the players, foster an environment where they may flourish, acquire new abilities, understand how they fit into the greater picture, and ultimately achieve.

Rayanne Morriss
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2 thoughts on “How to Change Your Life as a Boss”

  1. Change your outlook – and expectations – to change your life, boss-wise or not. I figured it was easier to be my own boss by facing fear Rayanne than depending completely on someone to be my boss, to determine my salary, my freedom, etc.



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